No answer to your question about why  "kids" (19 plus olds are not Kids) still live at home . . . . 
But, What do I know - Been with the same blond since, well - many, many moons ago. You, you're single . . . . you get to test drive "new to you" models until you find the "best scratch and dent" (from above post), that correlates with your personality. There's no hurry to find the one that works best in your environment and situation, take your time and you'll adventurallly get together with what works best for the both of you. Lots of different reasons for those available today - I wouldn't discount any of them, until test driven . . . . . . Also, consider out of your area. The US is a very big place, and heck, so is the world. Open your choices up all places on earth. A bar isn't a the best place to start, look in other corners.  Good Luck